Black Friday Chegirmalari – Shoshiling!

BlackFridayda arzon savdo qilish uchun odamlar ne ko’ylarga tushishi ko’rsangiz edi. Bu ne mashmashaligini ko’rish uchun bugun birinchi marta men ham o’sha yerga bordim. Blak Friday Amerikda bayram faslining boshlanishini belgilab beradi, do’kondagi har bir tovarning narxi pasaytiriladi. Bu kunda do’konlar juda erta ochiladi. Odamlar esa do’kon eshiklari ochilishini kutib uzun-uzun qatorga tizilishadi. O’tgan yillarda do’kondagi narsalar uchun talashgan odamlar ham bo’lgan, hatto arzon narxga narsa sotib olaman deb o’lim hollari ham yuz bergan.

Review on The Zahir

The Zahir by Paulo Coelho
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

A famous writer Coelho Paulo is my favorite writer. A few months ago, I read his novel called “The Zahir”. This novel also left a significant impact on me.

The novel is about finding true yourself in deep inside you.  The author himself calls it a novel of obsession. He himself says that he should not be opening up himself so much to public in the novel. However, that uncovering makes the novel interesting and unique.

Coelho is a good spiritual writer. In all his novels, he skillfully paves the way to climax through problems and gives solutions as elixir. However, in this novel, I do not agree with him partly in his solutions, but he brings up many good points or problems in a marriage.

Another aspect makes Coelho’s books bestseller is that his novels are full of new information, mostly unknown to common reader before. In “The Zahir”, epilepsy caught my interest. Even though I had information about epilepsy from my “Medical expertise in court cases” class in law school, I learned more interesting information through this novel. He made me watch “The Alice in Wonderland” over again. I also went through biographies of famous people in the history who had epilepsy.

Overall, the novel is written well.  A reader gets satisfaction through the author’s persuasion. I would recommend it to people who love reading. 

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Nouman Ali Khan – Do you intend to question the Messenger?

Nouman Ali Khan – Do you intend to question the Messenger?

Ikkalasi ham qotillik!

Ginekolog huzurida bir ayol tashvish bilan shunday demoqda:

- Doktor, jiddiy muammoga duch keldim, yordamingizga muhtojman! Chaqalog’im hali bir yoshga to’lmasdan yana homilador bo’lib qoldim. Bolalarim o’rtasidagi yosh farqi bunchalik yaqin bo’lishini istamayman.

Shunda shifokor dedi:

- Yaxshi, mendan nima istaysiz?

- Homilamni tushirishingizni xohlayman.

Ibodatga shoshilaylik

Hazrati Umar r.a. erta tongda masjidga borishni odat qilgandi.U kishi hali azon aytilmasdan turib masjidga kirib namoz vaqti bo'lishini kutib o'tirardi. O'sha kuni ham tong otmay masjidga otlanib yo'lga chiqdi. Ko'chada shoshib ketib borarkan, bir bolaga ko'zlari tushdi. U ham qayoqqadir shoshib ketayotgandi. Hazrati Umar r.a. qiziqib bolakaydan s'oradi: Ey bolam, erta tongdan qayerga ketayapsan?

Bola: Namoz o'qish uchun masjidga. Namoz vaqti yaqinlashib qo'ldi, mening esa tahoratim yo'q. Azon aytilmay tahorat olishim va namoz vaqtini kutushim kerak, shuning uchun shoshilayapman. Hazrati Umar r.a. bolaning javobidan suyundi. Ammo uni yana bir sinab ko'rish uchun so'roqqa tutdi: Bolam hali juda yosh ko'rinasan, hatto namoz ham farz bo'lmagan senga, qiyin bo'lmayaptimi? Bola: Hazratim, nahotki bu ishda yoshning ahamiyati bo'lsa, kecha mahallamizda mendan ham yosh bola vafot etdi. Demak, menga ham shuncha yil yashaysan, deb kafolat berilmagan. Shuning uchun ibodat qilishga oshiqaman. Hazrati Umar r.a. bolaning javobidan hangu-mang bo'lib, ikki qarama-qarshi tuyg'u og'ushida qoldi. Bir tamondan bolaning kichik yoshda bo'lib, Allohdan qo'rqib uning ibodatiga shoshilganidan quvongan bo'lsa, ikkinchi tamondan aqlini tanigan katta odamlarning g'aflatda, jaholatda yurganlaridan mutaasir bo'lib qayg'u chekdi.

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I've been to 21 cities in 6 countries

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likes popular destinations

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0.2% most cities visited - Uzbekistan

2% most cities visited - Latvia

3% most cities visited - South Korea

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Japan: Kyoto

Japan: Nagaya

Japan: Nara

Japan: Osaka

Japan: Tokyo

South Korea: Seoul

Uzbekistan: Farg'ona

Uzbekistan: Nurota

Uzbekistan: Samarqand

Uzbekistan: Tashkent

Europe

Germany: Frankfurt am Main

Latvia: Riga

North America

United States: Chapel Hill

United States: Chicago

United States: Hawai'ian Islands

United States: Honolulu Landing

United States: New York

United States: Seattle

United States: Spokane

United States: Tacoma

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3-Hikoyat

Men bir donishmanddan: “Eng ashaddiy dushmaning – ikki kifting orasida joy olgan nafsingdir, degan hadisning ma’nisi nima?” deb so’radim. Donishmand shunday javob berdi: “Ma’nosi shuki, har bir dushmanga ehson qilsang, u senga do’st bo’ladi, illo nafs degan narsaga qancha iltifot qilsang, adovatini shuncha oshiraveradi”.

Maromida ovqat yegan farishta bo’lur,

Hayvon kabi yesa tushar og’ir tosh misol.

Kim istagin bajo qilsang amringga tobe,

Nafs aytganin qildingmi, bo’ysundirmoq mahol.

Shayx Sa'diy, "Guliston".

Winter Charity Call for Uzbeks in Southern Kyrgyzstan

2-Hikoyat

Sa’diy hikoya qiladi:

Bolalik kunlarimda juda ibodatga berilib ketib, kechalari tinmay namoz-niyoz bilan mashg’ul bo’lganligim yodimda. Bir kecha otam huzurida o’tirib qur’onni bag’rimga bosib, tilovat qilish bilan mashg’ul bo’ldim. Atrofimizda bir necha odam uxlab yotardi. Shunda men otamga dedim: “Bulardan birortasi loaqal ikki  rakaat namoz o’qigali boshini ko’tarmaydi-ya, shu qadar g’aflat uyqusiga botibdilarki, uxlagandan ko’ra ko’proq o’lganga o’xshaydilar!”

            Otam dedi: “Ey jonim o’g’lim, sen ham odamlarni malomat qilgandan ko’ra uxlab qo’ya qolsang yaxshiroq bo’lardi”.

Ko’z oldini parda bosgan, manman degan kekkayma

Bu dunyoda o’zidan ham yetuk kishini ko’rmas.

Siz mabodo o’z-o’zini ko’rarlik oynak topib

Borsaydingiz, ko’rar edi o’zini hammadan past.

Sa'diyning Gulistoni haqida

Shayx Sa'diy Sheroziyning "Guliston" asarini o'qiyapman. Maktabda adabiyot fanidan bir marotaba Sa'diy haqida mavzu o'tganligimizni eslayman. Ammo maktabdagi dars va darslikdagi Sa'diy haqidagi ma'lumotlar menda bunday buyuk zotning ijodiga qiziqish uyg'otmabdi chog'i, ijodi bilan jiddiy yondashishga sabab bo'lmabdi. O'tgan yili Yorqinjon Qorining ma'ruzalarini maroq bilan tinglab yurardim. Aslida oddiy haqiqatlarni bizga o'z tilimizda tushuntirayotgan Qori ko'plab ibratli misollarni Sa'diyning asarlaridan keltirardi. Misollardagi majoziylik va gapni indallosi ayni kerakli nuqtaga yetib borishi Sa'diy shaxsiyatiga nisbatan hurmat va ijodiga nisbatan katta qiziqish uyg'otdi.
Sa'diy 90 yil umr ko'rgan fors ijodkori, barakali umrining 20 yilini sayohat bilan o'tkazgan. 50 yoshiga yetganda hayotda o'zidan keyin odamlar va o'zi uchun foydali bir narsa qoldirish maqsadida sayohatga chiqib, ko'rgan-kechirgan, eshitgan ibratli hikoyalarini to'plab "Guliston" yaratadi.
O'zbek tilida kitob o'qimoqchi bo'lib, Ziyouz kutubxonasidan "Guliston" asarining elektron versiyasini topdim va ayni damda mutolaadan maroqdaman. Muhimi, asarni o'zbek tilidagi tarjimasi yaxshi chiqgan. Asar ma'lum mavzularga bag'ishlangan boblardan iborat. Har bir bobda o'z mavzusiga aloqador ibratli hikoyalar asosan nasrda va qo'shimcha jilodorlik uchun nazmda bayon etiladi. O'zi oddiy, ko'rimsiz kitob bo'lishiga qaramay, o'qish davomida xuddi injular sohilida har qadamida duch kelgan dur-u gavharlarni ko'rib entikayotgan odamga o'xshayman. Xullas, asardagi ba'zi o'zimga ma'qul bo'lgan hikoyatlarni sahifam orqali siz bilan baham ko'raman. Sa'diy hikoyatlarini Sahifadagi "Ibrat" rukni ostida topishingiz mumkin. 

1-Hikoyat

Bir darvesh sahroning xilvat bir yerida o’tirgan edi. Shu mahal podshoh o’sha yerdan o’tib qoldi. Qanoat mulki ichra farog’atda bo’lgan darvesh podshohga qayrilib ham qaramadi. Podshoh darveshning bu ishini saltanat sh’aniga tahqir bilib, dedi: “Bu xirqa (janda) kiyganlar bamisoli qoramolga o’xshaydilar, ular tavozeni ham, odamgarchilikni ham bilmaydilar”. Shunda vazir darveshga yaqin borib, dedi: “Ey darvesh, podshohi olam sening yonigga keldilar, nima sababdan izzat-ikrom qilmading, odob qoidalarini bajo keltirmading?” Darvesh aytdi: “Podshohga degilkim, ne’mat va iltifotdan umidvor odamdan izzat va xizmat kutsin. Yana shuni ham aytib qo’ygilki, fuqarolar podshohga itoat etmoq uchun emas, balki podshohlar fuqaroga xizmat etish uchun yashaydilar”.

Garchi ne’mat bilan davlat uniki,

Lekin darveshlarga shohdir posbon.

Qo’ylar cho’pon uchun xizmat qilmaydi,

Balki qo’ylar uchun kerakdir cho’pon.

Bittani to’qu tinch ko’rasan bukun,

Bittasi urinib bo’lmish dil yara.

Necha kun sabr etib, o’zga mag’rurning

Miyasin tuproqlar yeganin qara.

To'rtlik

Ko’rmagan odamimni shunchalar sog’indim men

Ayting, bizni bog’lagan sevgi-mehr nega teng?

Intiqman mo’jizaga, hamd aytib Mo’jazkorga

Salomatlikda diydor uchun do’stlar omiyn deng.

Yangi loyihalar...

Bugun yangi tarjima ish boshladim. Ishqilib, odamlar uchun foydali qilsin, tezroqgina bitirib olay. O'zi 15 betlik ish, kuniga bir betdan tarjima qilsam ikki haftada tugaydi. Kuniga bir bet tarjima qilish qiyin emas, ikki betdan qilsam, bir haftada. Ammo ba'zida qunt va jiddu-jahd bilan tarjima qilishga o'tirish uchun imkon topishning o'zi qiyin kechadi.  Ishqilib, tarjima ishimdagi narsalar bor bisoti bilan tushlarimga ko'chib olmasa bo'lgani. Boshqa narsadan qo'rqmaymanu, ammo o'qigan, ko'rgan, eshitgan narsalarimning tushlarimga kirib, o'rnashib olishi meni bezovta qiladi.

Oxirgi paytlarda bir ishni oxiriga yetkazish qiyin bo'lib ketayapti. O'tgan dam olish kunlariga mo'ljallagan ishimiz ham o'zimizning yalqovligimiz tufayli qolib ketdi. Ikkita-uchta o'qishni boshlab qo'ygan kitoblarim meni qachon qo'lga olarkin, deb kutib yotibdi. Bu yoqda LSAT kitoblarini olib keltirib qo'yganman, hali 24 betgina o'qibman.  

Xudo xohlasa, tarjimani yaxshi yakunlab olib, yangi ishlar boshlaganimda yozarman. 

Shunchaki...she'r yozish haqida

Hozir o'zim yozgan she'rni o'rtog'imning blogida ko'rib, g'alati bo'lib ketdim. O'sha paytdagi ahvolimni eslab shunaqangi xo'rsingim keldiki....

 Allohga shukr, o'zimni tiklab olgandayman. Yana she'r yozgim kelib ketdi. She'r yozish uchun, she'r yoza olish uchun aslida nima kerak? 

Nega she'r yozmaysiz, degan savollarga hazilomiz "Men she'r yozishni tashlaganman", deyman. Aslida, she'r yozish "tashlab yuborsa" bo'ladigan ishmi?

The Story of Hazrat Isma'eel s.a.v.'s Two Wives

The Story of Hazrat Isma’eel s.a.v.’s First Wife

We will presently relate the stories of two wives of Hazrat Isma’eel s.a.v, the son of Hazrat Ibraheem s.a.v.These two incidents make it clear that a grateful wife and an ungrateful wife cannot be compared. Whereas the first wife complained about poverty instead of being grateful for her lot, the second wife expressed thanks to Allah despite their poverty. As a result of her attitude, Hazrat Ibraheem s.a.v. made Du’a to Allah to grant the couple blessings in their food and drink. As a result of this Du’a, the couple and their progeny (the Arabs) have enjoyed tremendous blessings. Gratitude therefore brought great blessings while ingratitude caused the first wife to lose her status as the wife of a Nabi s.a.v. This makes it clear that ingratitude was never tolerated in the pure homes of the Ambiayaa a.s.

After Hazrat Isma’eel s.a.v. got married, his father Hazrat Ibraheem s.a.v. came to Makkah to visit him. Not finding his son at home, Hazrat Ibraheem s.a.v. asked his daughter-in-law where her husband was. Unable to recognize Hazrat Ibraheem s.a.v, she said that her husband Hazrat Isma’eel s.a.v. was out hunting. Hazrat Ibraheem s.a.v. then asked her about their conditions. She complained to him that they were very poor and were experiencing great difficulty. After hearing her complaints, Hazrat Ibraheem s.a.v. told her to convey his regards to Hazrat Isma’eel s.a.v. and to tell him to change the threshold of his door.

Xo'ja Ahror Vali masjidi

Va nihoyat, rasmlarni blogga qanday joylashtirish haqida bir qarorga keldim. O'zim olgan rasmlar orasidan e'tiboringizga loyiq ko'rilganlarini birma-bir post qilib boraman va ularning soni ma'lum miqdorga yetgach  "Rasmlar to'plami" sahifasida rasmlarni turkumlangan papkalar shaklida tomosha qilishingiz mumkin.  

Toshkent, Xo'ja Ahror Vali masjidi, 2010-yil 3-iyun.

Anvar Poshshoning So'nggi Maktubi

G’ozi Anvar Poshsho Usmoniylar xalifaligining butun umrini Islom yo’lidagi kurashga bag’ishlagan so’nggi sarkardalaridan. U janglardan birida ruslar bilan to’qnashuvda shahid bo’ladi. O’limidan bir kun oldin rafiqasi Najiya Sultonaga yozgan maktubi saqlanib qolgan. Quyida siz o’qiydigan bu maktub Turkiya gazetalarida rafiqasi ruxsati bilan nashr qilingan.

Azizam Najiya,

Suyukli rafiqam, shodligim va baxtim bulog’i bo’lgan qadrdonim Najiya. Qodir Olloh sening himoyachingdir.  Oxirgi yo’llagan maktubingga ayni paytda tikilib o’tiribman. Ishonginki, sening bu maktubing yuragimga har doim yaqin bo’ladi. Chehrangni ko’ra olmayman, ammo maktubingdagi satrlar va so’zlar orasida  qorong’u chodir  ichida sochlarimni silaydigan chiroyli barmoqlaringni ko’raman, gohida sening surating ko’z o’ngimda namoyon bo’ladi.  

Afsuski, sen unutib yuborganim va sening sevging haqida qayg’urmasligim haqida yozibsan.

Aytibsanki, men sening sevgiga to’la qalbingni vayron etibman. Uzoq o’lkalarda olov va qon bilan o’ynashib yurar ekanman va tunlarni xavotir bilan yulduzlar sanab bedor o’tkazadigan ayolga nisbatan bee’tibor emishman.

Sen yana aytibsanki, men urush va qilichni yaxshi ko’rar ekanman. Samimiy hamda menga nisbatan chuqur sevgi va muhabbat bilan bitilgan bu so’zlaring yuragimni qanchalar qonga to’ldirishini bilsang edi.

Камxарж никоҳ барака келтиради

Оилавий турмуш баракали бўлишини, ҳаёти муҳаббат ва тақволи фарзандлар билан тўлишини истовчилар Аллоҳ расули саллалоҳу алайҳи васалламнинг қуйидаги гапларига амал қилмоғи лозим: “Энг баракали никоҳ энг кам харажат сарфланадиган никоҳдир”. 

Расулуллоҳ саллаллоҳу алайҳи васаллам яна таъкидлайдиларки, “Энг яхши аёл маҳри кам аёлдир” (Ибн Ҳиббон ривояти).

Яна бир бошқа ҳадисда Расуллуллоҳ саллаллоҳу алайҳи васаллам шундай деганлар: “Совчиларга тез рози бўлиш, маҳрнинг кам бўлиши ва тез фарзандли бўлиш аёлнинг барака соҳибаси эканидандир” (Канзул Уммал ривояти). 

Никоҳнинг дастлабки шарти бўлган маҳрнинг кам сарфлашни тарғиб этувчи шариат, албатта, тўй маросимида ҳам камхарж бўлишни буюради... Ҳазрат Суфён Саврий разияллаҳу анҳу айтадиларки, келиннинг ўзи билан  нима олиб келганига кўз тиккан куёв ўғридир. Ҳаётларининг нури бўлган, машаққатлар билан вояга етказилган қизларини берганлари учун шукр қилиш ўрнига куёвнинг келин олиб келадиган матоҳларига кўз тикиши унинг ахлоқсизлигидандир. Худди шунингдек, куёвнинг келин томонга, улардан ҳам ҳадя қайтади, деган умид билан совға жўнатиши ҳам номақбул ишдир.

Both Husband And Wife Should Exercise Patience

Scholars throughout the ages are unanimous that Hazrat Luqmaan was an extremely wise man. In fact, some are of the opinion that he was a prophet. He was once working in an orchard when the owner of the orchard asked him to bring a cucumber. After peeling the cucumber, the owner sliced it and gave to Hazrat Luqmaan slice by slice to eat. Hazrat Luqmaan ate every slice with relish. Seeing the enjoyment on Hazrat Luqmaan's face the owner decided to eat the last slice himself. However, the taste was so bitter that he instantly spat it out. 

"This tastes worse than poison, yet you were eating it with so much relish!" exclaimed the owner. "That's true," replied Hazrat Luqmaan. "Why did you not tell me that it is so bitter?" queried the owner. "Why should I complain," replied Hazrat Luqmaan "when the same hand that always feeds me delicious food once gives me something bitter to eat?"

After relating this incident, Maulana Ashraf Ali Thanwi r.a. comments that there will be no disputes between husband and wife if both remember the above rule. If the wife thinks that since her husband is always towards her. At the same time, she should bear in mind that there are many times when he had to overlook things that she did. It is foolish to forget a lifetime of favours merely because of a single annoyance or scolding. Because of a single error on the husband's part, the wife should not blurt whatever she pleases by saying that she has only known hardship after marriage and would be better off dead. Such statements are unfortunately very common and should be avoided at all costs.

Hosting Simple Marriage Ceremonies

If people really want to blessings in their marriages and desire that the marriages should be filled with love and pious offsprings, they should follow the advice of Rasulullah sav, who said, "The marriage with the most blessings is the one in which the least expense are incurred."

Rasulullah sav has also mentioned, "The best of women are those who ask for the least dowry." (Ibn Hibban)

According to another Hadith, Rasulullah sav said, "The signs of a blessed woman is that her proposal comes soon, her dowry is small and her child is born soon." (Kanzul Ummaal)

One can well imagine that if the Shari'ah encourages the least expense for the dowry, which is a prerequisite of marriage, it will certainly encourage even less expenditure for the wedding ceremony and trousseau, which have no status at all in the Shari'ah.

Hazrat Sufyaan Thowri ra has mentioned that when a bridegroom asks his bride what she brought with her, he is a thief. His wicked nature is indicated by the fact that instead of asking for mundane commodities from his in-laws, he should be grateful to them for giving him the light of their lives whom they painstakingly raised for so many years. By this token, it is also improper for a son-in-law to send a gift to his parent-in-law whit the desire that they should also send him a gift.