Hosting Simple Marriage Ceremonies

If people really want to blessings in their marriages and desire that the marriages should be filled with love and pious offsprings, they should follow the advice of Rasulullah sav, who said, "The marriage with the most blessings is the one in which the least expense are incurred."

Rasulullah sav has also mentioned, "The best of women are those who ask for the least dowry." (Ibn Hibban)

According to another Hadith, Rasulullah sav said, "The signs of a blessed woman is that her proposal comes soon, her dowry is small and her child is born soon." (Kanzul Ummaal)

One can well imagine that if the Shari'ah encourages the least expense for the dowry, which is a prerequisite of marriage, it will certainly encourage even less expenditure for the wedding ceremony and trousseau, which have no status at all in the Shari'ah.

Hazrat Sufyaan Thowri ra has mentioned that when a bridegroom asks his bride what she brought with her, he is a thief. His wicked nature is indicated by the fact that instead of asking for mundane commodities from his in-laws, he should be grateful to them for giving him the light of their lives whom they painstakingly raised for so many years. By this token, it is also improper for a son-in-law to send a gift to his parent-in-law whit the desire that they should also send him a gift.

HIJOB IBODAT LIBOSIMI?

HIJOB IBODAT LIBOSIMI?

P.S. Juda ham foydali maqola ekan. O'qib chiqishni tavsiya qilaman.

Hijob haqida qonun bormi?

Saytimizga oxirgi paytlarda hijob haqida ko’plab savollar kelmoqda. Ularda, asosan, hijob o’rash O’zbekistonda qonuniymi, qonunchilikda bu haqda nima deyilgan, mutasaddilar tomonidan hijobga qarshi harakatlar sodir etilganda nima qilish kerak, kabi masalalar so’ralyapti. Bu haqda bir necha savolga alohida javob ham yozdik. Lekin mavzu, nazarimizda, yana biroz tahlilga va sharhga muhtoj. Chunki qonunchilikda ibodat libosi haqida band bor. Mavzuni to’la o’rganishimiz uchun, avvalo, shu qonun normalarini to’g’ri tushunishimiz kerak bo’ladi.

O’zbekiston Respublikasining “Vijdon erkinligi va diniy tashkilotlar to’g’risida”gi qonunining 14-moddasi 5-bandida shunday norma belgilangan:

“O’zbekison Respublikasi fuqarolarining (diniy tashkilotlarning xizmatidagilar bundan mustasno) jamoat joylarida ibodat liboslarida yurishlariga yo’l qo’yilmaydi”.

Xuddi shu qoida O’zbekiston Respublikasi Ma’muriy Javobgarlik to’g’risidagi kodeksining 184-1-moddasida ham o’z aksini topgan:

Blogga qaytish...

Taxminan ikki oylik tanaffusdan so'ng yana blogni ochiq deb e'lon qilaman.

Alhamdulillah, to'y ko'ngildagiday o'tdi. Oilaviy hayot ham boshlandi. Ayni paytda AQShning Merilend shtatidagi kichik shaharchada vaqtinchalik yashab turibmiz. 

Nikoh kechasidagi duo

Alloh xohlasa, nikoh arafasida turibman. Shuning uchun ham oxirgi paytlarda o'ylagan o'ylarim, surgan hayolim, o'qigan va eshitgan gaplarim: hammasi nikoh va oila haqida. Bundan bir muddat ilgari Feruza kennayimnikiga borgandim. Ular mendan bir iltimos qildilar: duolarimda ularni ham eslab o'tishni. Bajonidil qabul qildim. Shunda Feruza opa menga bir xabar berdilarki, (kenayim aniq hadisni ayni paytda topa olmadilar, ammo juda ilmli bir ayoldan eshitgnaliklarini yetkazdilar) ikki paytda qilingan duo hech bir to'siqlarsiz qabul bo'lar ekan. Birinchisi, Qadr kechasida qilingan duo.

Nikoh arafasida...

Turmush qurish shunchaki rafiqali yoki mahramli bo’lish emas, balkim u bilan birga Uning butun dunyosiga ega bo’lish demakdir. Shu daqiqalardan boshlab turmush o’rtoq sening hamkoring, yo’ldoshing va eng yaxshi do’sting bo’ladi.

U sen bilan lahzalarni, kunlarni va yillarni birga o’tkazadi. U sen bilan shodliging va g’amlaringni, muvaffaqqiyatlaring va omadsizliklaringni, orzularing va tashvishlaringni baham ko’radi.

Taqvo alomatlari

Mo'minning TAQVO sohibi bo'lgan yo bo'lmaganligi uch narsada ma'lum bo'ladi:
1. Erishmagan narsalar xususida TAVAKKUL qilsa.
2. Erishgan narsalari borasida HUSN-I RIZO ko'rsatsa.
3. Yo'qotgan va qo'ldan chiqargan narsalari xususida HUSN-I SABR ko'rsatsa.

Abu Homid G'azzoliyning "Mukoshafat-ul qulub" kitobidan

Tasavvuf (sufiylik) haqida ma'lumot

Tasavvuf (sufiylik)da bir qancha suluklar mavjud. Masalan, Suhravardiya, Kubraviya, Qodiriya, Chashtiya, Qalandariya va boshqalar. Hazrati Xoja[1] asos solgan suluk Naqshbandiya deb ataladi. Naqshbandiya so’zi Hazrati Xojaning laqablari bo’lib, matoga naqsh (gul) solishni bildiradi. “Maqomat”[2]ning bir yerida Hazrati Xoja mato to’qiydigan do’konlari borligiga ishora qiladilar. Bu so’zning ramziy ma’nosi ham bo’lib, muridning qalbiga Alloh muhabbatining  naqshlanganligini bildiradi.

Naqshbandiya sulukining yuqoridagi suluklardan bir qancha farqli tomonlari mavjud: